How To Start A Conversation On Tinder

[Zachary]

"A lot of people overly invest their time and energy into sending a message and custom-tailoring it. But at the end of the day, it’s truly a numbers game online," Lo Dolce says, noting that you should keep in mind that the person you're reaching out to could be getting lots of messages (especially on Bumble, where the woman has to initiate).

That's why he recommends keeping your message short and sweet—no one wants to respond to a paragraph. But make it playful and slightly personal:

- "Howdy! You seem..."
- "I find it fascinatingly wild that you..."
- "You look fun—how's your week going?"
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There are plenty of people on Tinder sending "Hey" and "Hi" messages, which is why yours could be easily overlooked. That why Lo Dolce encourages his clients to make their first message stand out. "Teasing someone is a great way to differentiate yourself," Lo Dolce says. Those of you who are naturally sarcastic might have to be careful with this one. The teases should still express interest and come off as playful and flirty—not judgmental.

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"You mentioned you love The Killers (or insert band/musician here). A bit old school, but I still dig it. :)"
"You said you hated ice cream? I need details."
"Be honest. Is that dog really yours or just for props?"
"Umm, you don't like The Avengers? Let's talk!"

[GeorgeHarris]

That was interesting. Have you ever used Tinder yourself? I personally thought that it had too much garbage at its core. I needed a woman for a serious relationship. I thought and started chatting on a dating site. I don't need special tricks. Typical stories you can find out if you go to my blog. Online communication is much softer and safer on classic dating sites.