Does Showmanship Lie to Us? Should Men Show Their Emotions?

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One thing we all have learned from movies about showing our emotions is that we should always do it to get the girl. Hey, it always works there, so it must work in real life as well! But is this the truth? Do we really as men have to start weeping and telling a girl how much we love her?Hugo boss

In the end of many romantic movies, where the boy and girl meet and the boy confesses his unceasing want to the girl, the movie always has a happy ending. Sadly however, this is not the case in real life. In fact, it's the exact opposite a guy ought to do. Now, I'm not telling you must never show a girl vulnerability or use the L-word (you are only human too), I am advising you to do it as little as possible. Let me explain why.

It is actually very simple. Women are attracted to strong men. The more you show a girl how vulnerable you are, the more she could lose interest in you. It might be cute the first few times, but after some time she could become bored today and will think that you are just a big wuss. You will lose your masculinity, when you can not keep your emotions in balance. And women always look for the man for emotional support. So what kind of man are you, when you can't even keep your emotions under control?

The same can be said with all the L-word. Imagine a lady you aren't attracted to confessing how much she loves you. How does that will make you feel? Apart from being flattered, you feel nothing. Now, when turning the same situation around, what do you think she would do? She definitely won't magically start to love you back because you said it to her first. This is where a lot of men go wrong when they think they own better chances with a woman by telling her how much she methods to them.