These are roles you have learned to play. In order to get off this merry-go-round you first need to take a close look at your subpersonalities and identify them. You are being lived and you yourself are not the creator of your life. It is only one facet of your self, and not your entire BEING. Standing in a traffic jam, your aggressive side may surface as another driver cuts in front of you. . We all are a mix of different subpersonalities. And it just goes on and on like that.. All day…